Jessy Ares- Porn Idol

Jessy Ares- Porn Idol

Jessy Ares is an adult movie actor with a pop star side-gig. He can sing naked, go-go,  juggle and if required, dazzle in hardcore porn..

He popped round for a bottle of wine and a chat.

In the music video for ‘Porn Star’ you’re naked. On the street in San Francisco. WTF?

It was pretty calculated put it that way. I’d been working in Germany as a model, but everything I’ve done has always been to music. In ‘X Factor’ and ‘Pop Idol’ in Germany, I’d always make it to reasonable rounds, but never to the finale.

What stopped you from going the full distance?

With Pop Idol, I got into an argument with one of the judges, so I just told him off and left the show. He was just being an ass. In X Factor I made it to one round after boot camp.

I have a good voice, but I don’t have the best. I have a voice to work with. After I left that show, I had to figure out a way to make money. I was making money as a model, but I have  minimum height for a model. I miss, like, an inch. For high fashion jobs, I’d have to be taller. I was usually doing sports, underwear and nudes.

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Do you have ambitions for the runway?

I don’t really care, but I wanna make big money. I got into porn, because I wanted to make enough to produce my music. Titan made me the best offer. When I told them I was involved in music, they said they’d help me out.

Did you leave fashion because it’s a bitchy environment?

Oh, God, YES.

Is doing music or porn that different?

I wouldn’t have thought so, but it is. Honestly, my experience of porn has been much easier than modelling. In porn, I’ve met maybe one person that I didn’t get along with. With modelling, it was the other way round. I’d get in fights and arguments. It got physical!

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How do you apply for job in porn? You send a photo in?

Yeah, a nude photo. Of your hard on, from the side, your butt, your body.

How was your first scene?

It went very well actually. I love sex. I’m a very open person sexually and I’m used to being in front of the camera. They said, ‘Are you sure this the first time you’ve done this?’ Then asked if I’d like to be exclusive to them.

We shot a movie called ‘Command Performance’ which was based around my music, which was used as the soundtrack. We filmed a sex scene in a recording studio.

Er, hang on. ‘Command Performance’- what’s the narrative?

(Laughs) It’s about a snappy artist, singer.

Which is you, right?

(laughs) Which is me! For some reason, I always play the snappy bastard.

What do you mean by ‘snappy’?

I just boss people around in that movie. I’m about to go on stage, to perform at a festival. I don’t have enough background vocals, so I get into an argument with my manager. We return to the studio to record more. Then everybody starts coming in. And we just fuck.

(Laughs) That’s a brilliant platform for your music.

Exactly. Before the movie came out, we shot THAT music promo you referred to, in San Francisco.

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How did you feel, being nude in the gutter?

Actually, I didn’t give a shit. I was just thinking (laughs) – I hope this is helps promote the music. It wasn’t meant to be a super professional promo. Wanted  it to grab people’s attention- and promote Command Performance.

Apparently you’ve got circus skills.

I had circus classes in school as a child.

What kinda education was THAT?

I changed school 17 times. I’ve been to American, German and Puerto Rican schools. My father’s Italian/Puerto Rican originally. My mother’s German/American. My dad’s in the military.

They had me at a very young age. They were 17 and 18. We moved every 3 years. My parents had to take care of their own lives at different points. I ended up staying with different family members. This led to more moving around. I had circus classes while staying with an aunt and grandmother in Germany .

Did you want to run away and join the circus?

Actually, it was my childhood dream to become a singer or join the circus.

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I can see you in Vegas, on a trapeze. Cirque De So Gay. What’s the extent of your acrobatics?

I can walk on a tightrope

CAN YOU?!

Well, it’s only a slack line.

Slack line schmak mime! Some people can’t walk in a straight line down the street.

I can juggle with with 4 balls. And with fabric, rings or fire clubs. Oh, and can unicycle.

You need to work this. Juggling AND fucking? Singing on a unicycle? I’d buy a ticket.

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Are you in favour of gay marriage?

Yes.

Do you have a boyfriend?

Er, yes.

You had a commercial career with modelling and sponsorship, did you worry about jeopardising that by doing adult movies?

Not all. I even kept most of my real name. I come from a conservative family. Military and Roman Catholic. So, I wanted to tease my family with it, a little bit. When I told Titan about keeping my name, they said, ‘You shouldn’t do that to your family’. So, I didn’t.

When did you come out to your family?

24. I had a really hard time accepting myself, because of the way I was raised It was really difficult for me. I was afraid to tell my family, but they’re okay with it now.

I guess they have to be. Was there pressure to join the military? Make Daddy proud and all that?

(Laughs) At the age of 19, they suggested I do just that. They also wanted me to to marry to the neighbour’s girl. She knew I was gay, so we just laughed about it. I knew it was time to get the hell out of there.

And did you?

I left home at 18 and everything that was on offer to me there. My mother had a lot of gay friends, being an interior decorator. But having gay friends is a different story to having a gay son. My father would say things like,

‘If you’re gonna be a gay, looking like a tranny, don’t even have to think about coming home, because I’ll kill you.’

I thought it was probably best to leave.

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Did you worry about your parents discovering your porn career?

When I started porn, it was for the money and to reach my goals. I didn’t give a shit what my family might think at that point in time. My mum found out and blames me for her heart attack.

She found out?!

I made her find out. She has a gay best friend, who I met at a festival in Munich. I gave him a hint that I was flying to the States to do porn. My father then called to ask what I was doing in San Francisco. He’d heard.

They went crazy over it a little bit. I told them to chill. He said that I could get AIDS. I told him it was all safe. He said that with my modelling and singing, they’d been proud of me and could walk with their heads up, but now they had to keep their heads down. I said, ‘That’s because YOU think it’s a bad thing’.

I like your attitude.

When I made the decision to step into porn, I knew what I was doing.

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Is it true you’ve had sex while performing a musical number?

Most of the songs on my album involve sex, so I was trying to combine my porn with music. When I perform in clubs, I sing, I undress. And I get my hard cock out. In Greece, a fan came up and sucked my dick on stage.

With porn comes  escort work, how do you feel about that?

I do it, sometimes. My first experience as an escort happened a long time ago. I needed money. I wasn’t at home. I didn’t want to go back to my family. Internet escorting wasn’t around back then. I was just looking where the hookers would be standing on the street. (laughs).

That’s hard work. Where were you doing this?

In Stuttgart. I met this really nice sex worker, who knew I was scared. She took me to a place where I could work. She helped  set things up and even handled the money for me.

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Now that you’re not on the streets, relying on good-hearted hookers, is it less stressful?

Well now, I only do it for really good money. I don’t have to do it. If the guy’s acceptable and the money’s acceptable, I’ll do it, but only as a top. Privately, it’s the same thing. I’m mostly top. I’ll bottom on rare occasions. Maybe with a boyfriend, but generally it’s not my thing

So, being a top isn’t a strategic decision?

I’ve bottomed in films as well. And even bottomed for people who I thought were really sexy, who said they were only top, because I really wanted to work with them. So, I made that sacrifice…

Oh, please, that’s not quite a ‘sacrifice’!

Spencer Reed was somebody I really wanted to work with because he’s SO good looking.

And?

It was ROUGH. He’s a great guy, fantastic, we’re still friends. The thought of it is cool, but some things in your fantasy are better than the reality. Spencer doesn’t have a small dick either…

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So, what porn have you done that didn’t turn you on?

I shot a movie for Michael Lucas called Pantyhose. At first I said forget it. I wouldn’t wear pantyhose, but I agreed to fuck a guy in stockings. I made it work, but I wasn’t into it. At. All.

Are you a jealous person?

Yes. I’m super jealous. If you’re shooting porn it really doesn’t mean anything. It’s just a job. But, If you’re having sex with somebody when you’re going out, then you WANT that guy.

It could just be darkroom sex, utterly meaningless…

I’ve never gone in a dark room. I’m not into cruising areas, sex parties, none of that. I’m a very visual person. I have sex with my eyes. I like to see the face, the body, the eyes. In a darkroom, you don’t see shit. You just feel a little bit, and that’s not satisfying my needs. The thought that they maybe had sex with another ten guys, maybe unprotected? I don’t want a dick in my mouth that was in an ass five minutes before.

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You’re a good, wholesome boy underneath everything. What do you look for in a man?

Honesty is the most important. Looks that I’m attracted to and a mind-set that I’m matched to.

First published in DNA

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